As my family and my business grew, I went through some confusing and overwhelming times. Those times were filled with guilt, guilt and more guilt. When I was working, my inner critic was tormenting me for being such a ‘bad mum’ and leaving my young children at the child minder, with the house such a mess… When I was with my children, I felt restless and unfulfilled. My mind pulling me in so many directions. Self-doubt accompanied me wherever I went. My feelings of guilt were slowly eating away at me. It was those dark times that encouraged me to seek out the light.
I searched high and low for the way out of my torment. I couldn’t find them. People who know me understand that I NEVER give up. I found the answers I was searching for…eventually. The tools that I have learned have enabled me to successfully integrate my personal life with my career, without that overwhelmingly dizzying, horribly all-consuming anxious feeling of incompetency, confusion and self-doubt. Yes, indeed it can be done! I have created myself anew in the process.
Disorganisation-overwhelm paralysis in various forms, whether in my home or work life, has accompanied me throughout my life, and still does. I now use tools to handle it.
My home still gets messed up, that’s how it should be. I have learnt how to only have one layer of mess in my home…
My brain hasn’t changed. I still live from one self-made crisis to the next, and they are many… I now use the tools I have learned to laugh at myself, and move on. Quickly. No guilt. No inner torment.
I have nothing to hide. I am who I am, inside and out. No cover ups, no facade, no running away from myself. No hiding my mistakes from others…
I see the confusion and overwhelmingly deep shame in the eyes of women wherever I go. You have so much to juggle. You need to look your best at all times. You need to be calm and focused at work, and meet those horribly pressuring project deadlines, on time. You need to think on your feet, all day long.
Then when you get home, you are bombarded with The Mess! The Chaos! The Laundry! The Clutter! You are plagued with indecision.
You are sick of your life.
You are sick of being you.
You are always overwhelmed.
You feel like you are living your life on the edge of trouble all the time.
Your moods swing from extremely high to extremely low. You think you may have bi-polar.
You don’t know where to start.
You just want to run away.
To top it all off your ADHD child has acted out (again) and turned the house (and your inner world) upside down…again. You just want to curl up, and go to sleep for 6 months…Sounds familiar?
I know what you are thinking, that it is impossible to find that elusive inner peace when your work commitments and family duties (read laundry and household chores, oh they are such a drudge…) are pulling you to pieces.
My mission in this world is to empower you to embrace your many faceted roles and understand and celebrate who you really are.
I will show you how you can work smarter, not harder, and focus on what you really and truly want to do in your life.
I will show you how you can restore your relationship with your ADHD child, and your family members. Its so easy when you know how.
You will learn how to banish your guilt, and learn how to motivate yourself.
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